Being a Bride.. and a Grad student

I've never really been the blogging type. Sure, I enjoy reading things that others post on occasion, but never thought I'd do one myself. Wrong. Naturally it was suggested to me by a certain graduate advisor who will remain nameless that I begin blogging; both as a means of, shall we say, blowing off steam (apparently I'm a perfectionist.. who knew?), and as a way of improving my not-so-formal writing style that's sometimes required for those in public health. But wait, you say, I thought scientists were supposed to use fancy language and write articles no one understands? All too true, dear reader. However, in public health sometimes you have to actually communicate with... get ready for it... the public. Most of "the public" don't speak scientist. In fact, most of the time, neither do I. 
So, since I'm such a great and obedient student, I've decided to detail this particular chapter in my life as I prepare to marry a wonderful man and to write a not too wonderful thesis. I can't promise how often I will update this, but I'll do my very best to keep your interest. 
Bless you if you're still with me. And get comfortable. 
Since anyone who's reading this knows all the basics about me, I'll skip over the boring parts and get right into wedding planning.


Jason and I got engaged Christmas day. It was, up to this point, one of the happiest moments of my life. Immediately I immersed myself in being a wedding planner. Of course, this was aided by the fact that not two days after our engagement people were already banging down the door to know "when the wedding would be." Not that I minded of course :-)
When we returned from all of our Christmas travels, my first goal was finding a venue. I figured if I did that, the rest would sort of fall into place. 


I must have visited a hundred website trying to find the best place (read, price) to get married. All we knew was that we wanted an Austin wedding sometime in the summer. We had made a list of invites and had a number. Okay, step one, check. Then the emails started. Apparently the moment you ask places for a quote they assume you're ready to book and send you contracts and meeting attempts. It was a bit much to be completely honest. As much as I hate being mean, I had to start sending emails to places that were out of our price range and telling them so. If you're not explicit, they won't get it. You basically have to say "no thank you, I can't afford it." Rough. After countless emails, I had locked on two places which seemed reasonable and made arrangements to see both. Once I saw the Marriott in Round Rock I was sold. Voila, we have our venue and date, July 29th. Food is taken care of, wedding location and reception location taken care of, and they even throw in a honeymoon suite for us. Rock on.


My next concern was our budget. Despite the generosity of both of our families, we're a proud couple and want to pay for many things on our own. We drew up an estimated budget of how much we'd spend in the next few months and I about had a heart attack. Weddings are expensive. And don't tell me to elope. No bride wants to hear that when she's knee deep in wedding plans. We'll manage, but we may be eating Raman the first few months of our marriage :-)


I next found our photographer and videographer. They're both reasonably priced and have high quality work. Both important things. The videographer, Jennifer and I went to high school together. It will be so nice to have a familiar face in the slew of vendors. She and her husband Cody do great work. Check them out at www.weddingfanatics.com. 


Thankfully Jennifer, my photographer and wedding planner at the Marriott all understand that this is a stressful time for any woman. Their emails have all been pleasant, and they've answered all my pesky questions without complaints. At least being a bride-to-be is a get out of jail free card to be a little irritating. 


So, all in all, I feel like I have accomplished a lot in the (exactly!) 4 weeks that we've been engaged. Maybe I'm being naive, but I hope not!


Now let's move on to my graduate studies. 


Classes started a few weeks back. I'm taking one class, working as a TA and working on my thesis. Okay, not really working on my thesis. For those who do not know, I received the okay from my advisor on my thesis proposal. It now hangs in limbo waiting for approval from the Associate Dean of Research before I can go on. Well, I could run some data in the mean time, but planning a wedding is so much more enjoyable than writing about child health. April 9th is D-Day in that my thesis has to be completely submitted and finished by then. You'd think that this was a piece of cake considering I only have two sections left to write. But not really. The approval process is long and bumpy. Two people have to approve every aspect of each part before anything is sent anywhere. Keep your fingers crossed for me. 


Wow, much more wedding stuff than school stuff. Or maybe wedding stuff is just more fun to write about. Yeah, we'll go with that. 


All right. Stop reading. Enjoy what's left of your weekend. I'll try posting again soon once I have something worth reading!


-Whitney